How To Be A True Friend

Friendship is one of the most beautiful relations in this world. Friends are the people with whom you can share your deepest secrets without any fear. They play an important role in a person’s life. They are like emotions of a person. They encourage when one is sad, scold when one makes any dumb mistake, entertain when one is lonesome, and listen to one’s problems.

Many people struggle in being a true friend. They don’t know how to act or what to do to become a friend that everyone wants. So in this article I am going to share the techniques through which you can be a true friend of someone. So let’s get started

1.    Be yourself:-

A lot of people, in order to be acknowledged, do the things that are not suitable for them. They change their gesture and posture and pretend to be cool. Believe me you don’t have to do this. All you have to do is to be yourself. Do what you want to do, not what you have to do. People don’t like those who pretend to be someone else. So if you want to be a true friend of someone, just be yourself.

2.    Dress Well:-

Dressing defines your personality. The first thing that people notice in others is how well they are dressed. Dressing doesn’t always mean a full formal suit with a tie hanging between your collars. Absolutely no. In fact, a clean well ironed dress can do the trick as well. Select your combination of shirt and pant, put on well polished shoes and you are ready to be noticed.

3.    Encourage and Admire your Friends:-

If you have some friends and you want to get close to them and want to be acknowledged as a true friend by them, you simply have to encourage and admire your friends. Encouraging and Admiring in the sense that if your friend puts a hard effort on something, firstly encourage them by saying good words like, “you can do it, just give it your best shot, I know you can do it”. Your friends will like these words from you. If they need help, help them. After they complete their work admire them. You will most likely be acknowledged by your friends.

4.    Believe in them:-

If you want to be a true friend, be a friend first. It is the duty of a person to believe in his/her friend. Believe them in whatever they do until and unless they are doing something good. Because you don’t want to be a friend of someone who is an evildoer. Or do you? Well it depends. In any case believing your friend is the most important option.

5.    Help them when they want:-

If your friend is in danger or is stuck at something, help them. Even if they don’t want anyone’s help. You want to be a true friend right? Helping your friends is an option. They might get your attention as well and they might end up saying you as their true friend.

6.    Make a trip with your friends:-

Try to make a trip with your friends like going on a camp, visiting old places, visiting other cities, going on a vacation etc. In this way you will have more chances of spending time with them and know them and vice versa. Planning a trip with friends is fun as well so if you don’t end up being a true friend, at least you will have a hell fun. Just joking….

7.    Conciliate them:-

If your friend is angry with you on something and If you really want to be a true friend of that person, convince them or apologize them with your true heart. Your friend will immediately come to realize about how much you care for him/her. Conciliation can sometimes be hard but as far as being a true friend is concerned, you have to do this. You can fail at a few attempts, but your friend will eventually perceive of you becoming his true friend.

8.    Don’t expose their secrets:-

I shouldn’t really be writing this point but we have some of our buddies who don’t know when to say what, and this habit of them becomes a real threat for them and for someone as well. Well if you want to be acknowledged as a true friend of someone you have to win their trust. You have to make sure that your friend believes in you and for this keep his/her secret. Avoid being a blatant that can cause trouble to both, you and your friend. This mistake has a 100% chance of losing someone. So avoid this mistake and keep your friend’s secrets.

9.    Don’t Betray them:-

Last but not the least. Don’t ever, ever betray your friend, because it will break his/her heart. It also damages your image in front of others and most likely you won’t get any friend if this habit is in your blood. So try to remove this habit completely from you.

Above 9 points collectively tell you what and what not to do. If you follow these instructions that I gave you, you will most likely be considered as a true friend. You need to care for your friends as well. Becoming a true friend is a hard task I know but once you are considered as someone’s true friend you will get a feeling of becoming a special person.

That’s all from me. Have a good day…