Dating at Young Age

Dating has been a very common and the most interesting thing for a teenager. In this era, almost everyone teenager is involved in some kind of relationship. These relationships are made on social media, in schools/colleges, face to face, on mobile phones and there are many more sources. After they start their life of relationships mostly boy offer his girl to go on a date with him and girls mostly reply positive. Then they go on a date. Date can be anything like having a coffee together, going for a lunch or a dinner, going to watch some movie in cinema together etc. But have you ever thought what should be the best age for dating?

Dating at a young age is quite popular nowadays. Almost every young teen couple is found to be dating at some place. On Valentine’s Day on 14 February, you will see young couples all around you and that day is like the treat for them because on that day every mall, hotels and places like that give you a type of romantic environment. But dating at a very young age can be dangerous especially for girls. I will enlighten the points where I will try to prove that dating at young age is dangerous.

When a young couple goes on a date, they create a romantic environment by talking only. They praise each other, say good words to each other, propose each other, accept each other’s love etc. These types of words often create a very romantic environment. Sometimes couples take their relationship to the next stage. They commit something that shouldn’t be committed at their very early age. They become sexually involved with each other and commit sex. Now the thing is sex at such an early age is quite dangerous to survive especially for girls. They lose their virginity. This is kind of ruining the lives of each other.

Girls get more effected by this type of dating at young age. Suppose after this type of dating  boy wants to end the relationship, he starts abusing and saying bad words to the girl, she gets offended and becomes the victims of loneliness and sadness and inside of her, she also get offended to lose her virginity. These girls then feel shame on what have they done and can’t even make eye contact with anyone. This problem often becomes a wall in a girl’s marriage resulting in divorce. It means girl’s life is ruined and she commits suicide. Similarly for boys if they are very serious in a relationship but their partners leave him for some reason, they adopt some harmful habits like smoking, drinking etc and harm their bodies by blades or knives. Some boys even commit suicide.

This life ruining habit is a very common problem nowadays. Parents can play a major role in protecting their children from this problem. They should keep a strict eye on their children and if they feel something wrong they should not be afraid of interrogating strictly. Furthermore, they shouldn’t buy their children mobile phones before 20 or if they do then they should check their mobiles occasionally. But not only parents I would request every teenager out there to not involve in this kind of activity. Because this is the age where teenagers should give their proper time to their studies and avoid these extra things which don’t make any sense. In this age no any boy or girl can be sincere. Love, relationships etc are just time pass for them. So please protect yourselves from these kind of affairs and dating at this early age.